Why a Great Birthday Cake is Worth the Effort!
At this time of year my husband and I always begin to take deep breaths as we brace ourselves for what we call our âparty seasonâ â our family of four has birthdays falling within an 11 week period of each other â and the rounds of lists, meetings with agendas, consultations and invitation decisions that go with it.
Of course, we are very much aware that the only parties that really matter (barring the odd milestone celebration) are for the two under 10s in the family.
And topping every âto doâ list is Birthday Cake! Â Hereâs why.
1. Bragging Rights
Children â quite rightly â want bragging rights for their parties. We have reminded ourselves of this annually, particularly in our two sons earlier years, as we sought to create memories; and to ensure that if this yearâs party was going to be their first memory, it would be a good one.
Generally speaking, if you can do it and space permits, home-based parties (while involving a good bit more effort), are far more memorable. As numbers rise of course (we have found party size tends to peak at age 6 or so) this isnât always possible. An amazing cake will always stand out though!
2. Nurturing Through Food
Research bears out that a childâs earliest memory is often food related. The making and giving of food can be perceived as an act of love, providing nurture, comfort, warm feelings and stability, âa safe placeâ which is so important in childhood.
I always try to ensure that a special family meal marks every birthday occasion, even if the main birthday celebration is taking place outside the home. Playcentres are not noted for their cuisine!
And sometimes we have two cakes (a âfeed the massesâ one for the main party and a smaller fancier one at home).
3. Creating Family Traditions
Childhood habits often make their way all the way through to adulthood. How often have you heard people talking about their grannyâs apple pie, or how much they enjoyed getting to lick the wooden spoon after making cookies or a bread recipe that has been passed down through the generations?
Regardless of culinary skills (my own are fairly rudimentary), we can all make a good stab at a simple cake recipe or cheat with a baking kit and ready-made icing. And all children love to decorate a cake!
4. Emotional Connections
A birthday cake goes even further as it is for one child specifically, to celebrate their special day and reflecting their interests and preferences.
There are deep emotional connections to a birthday cake, where someone has made a significant effort just for you, the cake is the centrepiece and you are surrounded by loved ones who sing Happy Birthday as you blow out your candles. It doesnât get better!
5. A âMemory Logâ
Another great aspect of birthday cakes is the âmemory logâ they provide of our childrenâs favourite toys and interests at a particular time. For us, that has included an Angry Birds top iced cake, a Ninjago cake with the favourite character (Kai) transposed on top, and a football playing field cake, among many others. Itâs otherwise so easy to forget these things with the passage of time.
Some birthday cake inspiration
The type of cake itself is often much less important than the decoration (we often get vague instructions along the lines of âsomething chocolateyâ) which needs to deliver the âwowâ factor.
There are some super online resources to help inspire ideas for a cake with a difference, which you can try out.
- Birthday cakes for kids by BBCgoodfood.com
- Birthday cake recipes for kids Goodtoknow.co.uk
With an estimated 6/7% of the population experiencing gluten sensitivities, itâs also a nice touch to have a gluten-free option at your party, alongside your main cake.
There are lots of in-store options from brands such as the Foods of Athenry or Deniseâs Delicious Gluten Free or you can try baking your own, there some great recipes on this site.
- The very best gluten-free vanilla cake by Glutenfreeonashoestring.com
- THE chocolate fondant (Gluten Free) by CharlotteIndia.com
As Julia Childs famously said, âA party without a cake is just a meetingâ.
So make sure yours is a good one!
About Orla Donohoe
With a background in food marketing, Orla has spent over 20 years observing what we eat and why we eat it. Sign up for free to the myfoodtrends.com blog to find out more.